Some Tips on How to Propose a Girl

Do you experience cold feet, trembling hands and shaky voice when you think of proposing a girl? Well that’s what most guys experience when they go out to propose a girl. Not every man is equipped with confidence to approach a girl and for such men here are a few tips to propose a girl.

Guys must do some homework before they go out to propose a girl. They must know about her likes, dislikes, personality and nature. A relationship is for lifetime. Therefore, it makes it important for any man to know how good would be his compatibility with her. Though true compatibility can be known after you start spending time together, you can get some hint by knowing a little about the girl. Her likes, dislikes and nature can tell you if she is the right match for you.

Save yourself the embarrassment by enquiring about the man in her life. If she is already dating someone, there is no point approaching her. But if she is single, go ahead with your plan and propose her.

Girls live in their own dream world. They have fantasies that are totally filmy. So your proposal plan should adhere to her dream world. This does not mean getting stars for her but doing something that will make her feel special.

Flowers and compliments always make a girl feel special. When you meet her, tell her how beautiful she looks in her dress or how her smile makes your day. Say anything that you think will bring a smile on her face but don’t overdo it. If you tell a dark girl how fair her skin is, she will feel offended. So choose your compliments wisely.

Book a romantic garden for dinner. Do some barbeque there and treat her with her favorite food. Also have a LCD placed there to watch her favorite romantic movie. In the middle of the movie, when there is a romantic scene, hold her hand and propose to her.

Long drives are also a good way of proposing a girl. Compliment it with her favorite music and drinks and say the three golden words when she is lost in her dreams. Repeat it for her to hear it clearly. Note her expressions. If she blushes, it means she likes you.

Write a letter to her and express your feelings through it. Courier it to her or give it her personally along with some flowers. You can even propose a girl through email. Writing always helps in expressing yourself in a better way.

Do not force a girl to say yes to the relationship. Let her take her time to decide about you. If you show desperation, she will not like it. Give her enough time and do not ask her about her decision frequently. Let her contact you.

If she says no to you, do not beg her. Girls simply hate it and also it takes away your dignity. Show her you have a life by giving her a smile and wishing her all the best.

Hope these tips help you in proposing a girl.

Being in Love…

Love is to share life together

To build special plans just for two

To work side by side

And then smile with pride

As one by one, Dreams all come true.

To love is to help and encourage

With smiles and sincere words of praise

To take time to share

To listen and care

In tender, Affectionate ways.

To love is to have someone special

One who you can always depend

To be there through the years

As a partner. A Lover, A Friend

To love is to make special memories

Moments you love to recall

All the good things

That sharing life brings

Love is the greatest of all

I’ve learned the full meaning of

Sharing and Caring

And having my dreams all come true;

Being in love

By being and loving with you.

Open my heart…

Open my heart
Seeing that you already have the key

Open my heart
To meet with the pleasure of your life

Open my heart
So far you will find your heart desire

Open my heart
To come across your life wonders

Open my heart
To determine that it was for good

Open my heart
To get to know utterly its aspiration

Open my heart
In order to find what I devoted for you

Open my heart
That’s the only way to verify the truth

Open my heart
To find no difficulty to trust me

Open my heart
This where resides the true love

Open my heart
I’m so exhausted to give evidence of love

Open my heart
I can’t resist any more, even for a second

Open my heart
And that would be a passionate triumph

My First Love…..My First Heartbreak

My First Love…..My First Heartbreak

I never thought I would love someone like you
Never in my dreams that I would meet you
But then, as I travel in my life’s journey
You walk into my life and I fall for you.
I never know how is it to be in love
Until that very special moment
You brought wonderful things in my life
You opened my eyes to see the beauty of love.
You are my first kiss
You are the first guy who hugged me tenderly
You are the first man who held my hand lovingly
You are my first love.
You are the one who taught me how to love sincerely
You showed me the way to your heart
You’ve taught me everything that I should know about love
I told myself, the story of my life is all about you.
You cared for me, and I really appreciate it
You showed me how to love unselfishly
But you never teach me the art of letting go
You never teach me the cure of hurting so much.
I thought my first love will be my last
I thought its you that I belong to
But now, what I once thought remains as thoughts
For you are now waiving goodbye.
All your smiles are for me
But now, its for somebody else’s
Your stare so full of love
Its for someone’s comfort.
The hug and kiss that I once have
Your heart once all mine
Now, they all belong to somebody
It hurts to know you are already gone.
Deep in me, I made a promise
I will never fall in love again
Unless its you, my first love,
My one and only…

A Story about “Sacrifice”

I was never the popular one in school, mostly ignored or bullied by my peers. I spent my school days being bullied and listening to the “cool” girls talk about boys. I wasn’t one to believe in love and happily ever afters, as I thought who would love me if no one even wanted to be my friend?

I was an outcast, my friends were all boys. But as we grew up, the boys wouldn’t hang out with me anymore.

At home, I was a good girl, listening to everyone and playing fair.
Until I met him.

My first impression of him was of an adorable, nerdy fellow. He proved me quite wrong, he was a fighter, a trouble-maker. And I loved him for him. I loved his strong side that he showed everyone, I loved his sweet smile and adorable accent, I loved his serious side and I loved his cute fear of spiders. I still do.

He had a girlfriend then, and seemed happy, so I decided not to tell him anything. I didn’t want to ruin his world or our friendship. A year went by this way.

Something happened, he broke up with his girl, but he wouldn’t tell me why. It didn’t really matter and our friendship continued. He came over to my place, I went to his, and he even slept over once. Life looked less grim and school became a happier place since I began standing up for myself.

I asked him to be my boyfriend and he accepted. That had no much effect on us, our easy-going friendship continued. We hung out at arcades and played stupid games, like nothing changed.
Until I got angry at him one day, and he dumped me. At first, the pain seemed surreal. I was still his friend and there wasn’t much awkward stuff to get over because I didn’t want to break our friendship too. It worked fine for me, being his happy friend in the mornings and crying myself to sleep at night.

Then he moved away to another country, and I never got to say goodbye. I couldn’t. When he was leaving, I gave him a small nod and moved off, as if if I denied that he was truly leaving, he would stay.

When I woke up in the morning, I was hit by an overwhelming tide of emotions. I checked the clock, 5:30am. He was gone already.

I missed him terribly and took to cutting myself to try ease the pain I had hidden. I cried incessantly, it hurt so badly. I felt like my soul was broken to pieces and set on fire.

He has a new girl there and I was really happy for him. It was my only wish, to have him happy, and I would gladly support him from afar if need be. I’d do anything for him.

Every time he visited, I wanted to hug him so desperately, but I was afraid it would ruin the perfect world he must have fought to build in his new home, if someone spread a rumor out saying he had some other girl in Singapore, his real girl would get angry at him, and he loved her. He didn’t want to lose her.

My happiness is of no importance to me, I was never meant to have any. But he had been happy all along and I would do anything to keep it that way. Even if that means cutting and crying alone at home, hurting when he has problems and sacrificing my life, dreams and whatever happiness I may find.
I’ll always be waiting for him, to pick him up when he’s down and help him through whatever problems I can. It’s been that way for three years, and it will stay that way.

Love Quotes And Saying..

If you love somebody, set them free. If they return, they were always yours. If they don’t, they never were.

Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship – never.

You don’t love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her.

Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get, it’s what you are expected to give — which is everything.

Love builds bridges where there are none.
- R H Delaney

Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes…just be an illusion.
- Javan

The definition of a beautiful woman is one who loves me.

Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.
- Robert Heinlein

Love is like the sun coming out of the clouds and warming your soul.

Life without love is like a tree without blossoms or fruit.
- Kahlil Gibran

Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
- Robert Frost

To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

A lawful kiss is never worth a stolen one.

Love is being stupid together.
- Paul Valery

Age does not protect you from love, but love to some extent protects you from age.
- Jeanne Moreau

The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.
- Eden Ahbez

Only love let’s us see normal things In an extraordinary way.

There’s always room for love; You just have to move a few things around.

The chance to love and be loved exists no matter where you are.

Love means never having to say you’re sorry.

Love isn’t finding a perfect person. It’s seeing an imperfect person perfectly.
- Sam Keen

If you judge people, you have no time to love them.
- Mother Teresa

Paradise is always where love dwells.
- Jean Paul Richter

Once we recognize what it is we are feeling, once we recognize we can feel deeply, love deeply, can feel joy, then we will demand that all parts of our lives produce that kind of joy.

I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
- Roy Croft

Pure love is a willingness to give without a thought of receiving anything in return.
- Peace Pilgrim

A Story Of A Sad Girl.

Her name was Abby
She was only five
This is what happened
……When she was alive

Her dad was a drunk
Her mom was an addict
Her parents kept her
Locked in an attic

Her only friend
was a little toy bear
It was old and worn out
And had patches of hair

She always talked to it
When no one’s around
She lays there and hugs it
Not a peep of sound

Until her parents
unlock the door
Some more and more pain
She’ll have to endore

A bruise on her leg
A scar on her face
Why would she be
In such a horrible place?

But she grabs her bear
And softly crys
She loves her parents
But they want her to die

She sits in the corner
Quiet but thinking,
” God, why? Why is
My life always sinking? “

Such a bad life
For a sad little kid
She’d get beaten and beaten
For anything she did

Then one night
Her mom came home high
The poor child was hit and slapped
As hours went by

Then her mom suddenly
Grabbed for a blade
It was sharp and pointy
One that she made

She thrusted the blade
Right in her chest,
” You deserve to die
You worthless pest! “

The mom walked out
Leaving the girl slowly dying
She grabbed her bear
And again started crying

Police showed up
At the small little house
They quickly barged in
Everything was as quiet as a mouse

One officer slowly
Opened a door
To find the sad little girl
Lying on the floor

It must have been bad
To go through so much harm
But at least she died
With her best friend in her arms